To a friend you must wish good for his own sake. If you wish things this way, but the same wish is not returned by the other, you would be said to have only goodwill for the other. For friendship is said to be reciprocated goodwill. So friends must be well-disposed towards each other, and recognized as wishing each other's good.
As Aristotle was saying, when you have thrown a stone in the sea, you cannot afterwards bring it back again, but nevertheless you are responsible for having taken up the stone and flung it, for the origin of the act was within you. Similarly the unjust and profligate might at the outset have avoided becoming so, and therefore they are so voluntarily, although when they have become unjust and profligate it is no longer open to them not to be so.
Genuine friendship must be based on goodness; what rests on pleasantness (as with the young), or on utility (as with the old), is only to be recognized conventionally as friendship. In perfection it cannot subsist without perfect mutual knowledge, and only between the good; hence it is not possible for anyone to have many real friends.
Friendship is a kind of exchange - equal between equals, and proportional between unequals; a repayment. This suggests various questions as to priority of claim e.g. between paying your father's ransom and repaying a loan, both being in a sort the repayment of a debt. No fixed law can be laid down i.e. it cannot be said that one obligation at all times and in all circumstances over-rides all others.
The good man is self-sufficing, but friends are desirable, if not actually necessary to him, as giving scope for the exercise of beneficent activities, not as conferring benefits upon him. Besides, man's highest activities must be exercised not in isolation, but as a member of society, and such life lacks completeness if without friends. Finally, friendship attains its completest realization where comradeship is complete; that is to say, in a common life.
Reference: Aristotle's Nichomachean Ethics Books
Friendship is a kind of exchange - equal between equals, and proportional between unequals; a repayment. This suggests various questions as to priority of claim e.g. between paying your father's ransom and repaying a loan, both being in a sort the repayment of a debt. No fixed law can be laid down i.e. it cannot be said that one obligation at all times and in all circumstances over-rides all others.
The good man is self-sufficing, but friends are desirable, if not actually necessary to him, as giving scope for the exercise of beneficent activities, not as conferring benefits upon him. Besides, man's highest activities must be exercised not in isolation, but as a member of society, and such life lacks completeness if without friends. Finally, friendship attains its completest realization where comradeship is complete; that is to say, in a common life.
Reference: Aristotle's Nichomachean Ethics Books
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